Friday, November 02, 2007

意外?驚喜?

意外驚喜

如果有一天, 你的 "他" 突然間告訴你, "我帶你去註冊~"

你會有怎樣的反應? 欣喜若狂~~
暗地裡歡天喜地, 然後還再次的確定, 這不算正式的求婚哦~!
還滿懷希望的期待求婚的另一個驚喜...

這個男生真的是你情定一生的對象嗎? 如果有人這樣問你, 你會怎麼答呢?
"就是他, 非他莫屬", "毫無疑問, 他就是我唯一的選擇, 是他! 沒有什麼理由, 就是這麼簡單"

為什麼這麼篤定?

由一開始, 沒有信心到信心滿滿;
沒有安全感到安全感十足;
沒有耐心到... 互相鼓勵;
缺乏信任到互相尊敬, 互相包容, 互相信任.

篤定 - 全因為雙方都一直不斷的努力細心的護佑著這段感情.

很慶幸, 我能夠遇見你!

因為你, 我懂得什麼是愛情, 什麼是忍讓, 什麼是信任, 什麼是付出...
是你讓我經歷了愛情裡的甜酸苦辣...

開心的微笑, 幸福的甜笑, 愚笨的傻笑
過分喜悅的眼淚, 擔心的眼淚, 妒嫉的眼淚, 心酸的眼淚,
同甘共苦~ 辛辛苦苦~ 啦苦啦苦~
互相對罵的辣辣味道~

我一定要創造更多的意外驚喜!
(懷孕是意外驚喜嗎?!)

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The Most Suitable Job

稱心如意的一份工作…

究竟怎樣才能做到敬業樂業?
到底是我低估了工作還是我高估了自己?

由一開始的努力到了現在邊工作邊埋怨, 是不是我遺忘了些什麼?

不論在工作上出了什麼亂子, 都不可以亂發脾氣,
否則這工作者的態度, 品德都太糟糕.

我承認, 很多時候我要求別人得太嚴厲, 對自己則太寬容.
有時候, 我過分要求完美,
自我中心, 節奏太快了嗎?
逼得自己太緊了嗎?
不自覺的也逼得身邊的人透不過氣… 這又何苦呢?

什麼事情都可以解決,
只要多點耐心, 多點恆心,
看開一點, 什麼是都好商量.
何必讓自己難過, 讓身邊的人難受呢?
但是, 為什麼當下會如此接受不了呢?
如此不堪一擊? 如此沉不住氣?

人年長了, 必須好好涵養自己的品德,
如何涵養呢?
事情不論好壞, 美醜, 高難度與否,
來到面前, 必須靜下心,
別急著把事情辦好, 分析了再將事情辦圓滿.
沒有人在摧趕你, 何必為自己營造不必要的焦慮呢?
讓身邊的人一塊兒焦慮更不應該.

加油吧! 你可以的, 你是最好的, 你知道嗎?

Sunday, September 16, 2007

一日和尚敲一日鐘!



到底我得當一日和尚敲一日鐘呢, 還是半日仙呢?

如果: 兩件事情同時間發生, 一件呢老早已經答應好得完成; 而另一件呢比第一件更重要又或著只有一次的機會去完成, 那該怎麼辦呢?

衡量一下吧! 當半日仙一點也不好受, 因為無論你怎麼努力去完成半天的工作, 你只知道該半天的事情, 而下半部分的事情你丁點兒也不知道, 彷佛沒了記憶一樣. 這和沒有辦沒什麼兩樣.
我非常明白, 只要我沒有拿捏好這平衡點, 我真的會垮掉. 但是, 究竟有什麼解決方案呢?

其實上天已經安排得很好了! 突發狀況的事情可以扭轉局勢. 原本是可以一日和尚敲一日鐘的, 只是因為我沒有清醒的腦袋去分析事情研發後的後果, 而且沒有當機立斷, 否則事情可以更圓滿!

接下來的關卡, 到底該怎麼解決呢?

不可以在最後一分鐘才臨時通知別人, 這樣是很不好的習慣, 而且這會帶給別人麻煩.

好! 就這麼辦吧. 首先, 向兩方面詢問意見: 到底如果沒有出席會有什麼樣的後果, 而後確定一下, 是否可以在沒有我的狀況地下繼續進行事宜. 在確定了以後馬上做個妥當的決定, 告訴雙方. 畢竟有些事情勢時沒有兩全其美的, 但是起碼儘量做得盡善盡美, 更不要帶給別人麻煩.

希望自己將來可以多改變, 多與人配合.

啊~ 問題別老是纏著我啦~!!!

Friday, September 14, 2007

Recovered from SICKNESS~

Ever think of falling sick so that you get to rest and stay home for a break?
At least stay away from work? Away from office?

NEVER think of falling sick again after FEVER... for 2 weeks.

Falling sick is not something I wish to have while I am rushing for work and projects in hand.
However - - - when comes to Month of "Seven" I somehow fall sick badly.
Doc said I have fever ~ 38~~ I have took my MC and medicine.
Although I dislike taking pills I have no choice but to swallow it with my eyes close.

Fever ~ when I plan well to go vacation at Sepang? NEH~ I will still go SEPANG!!
I went to Sepang with Fever (Hehe...I thought I have recovered ><''')

Wearing thick jacket and yet still feel freezingly COLD~....

I felt so *touched* when my bf and his family are so caring.
HE~ takes good care of me. I get to have a break from office.
Honestly, after the FEVER comes and goes.... My body started to appear with reddish marking.

I went for second checkup with Doc... suspecing myself caught with Denggi~~
Good thing the reddish making actually turns out to be some kind of Fever sickness called "Fong Mok"
I cant take bath, cant wash hair, cant blow myself with wind... I also scream my head off~!!

I got warm water to at least clean myself up and ... I ignore the rules of FEVER and washed my hair ~~ else I might have a hair cut even if I have fever here :P


Wow~ it took me 2 weeks plus plus plus to recover from this Fong Mok.
I get to have a special offer - that is no need to COOK for 1 week :)
I also get to have the priority to rest more during these days.

However, I must get engine ready againfor new project~!

Anyway, I missed the SOLO competition event as I was unable to attend to it with the sickness.
I was afraid that I might faint half way during the competition.
So, I have decided to stay home instead of relying others to take care of me while others need to carry on their duties.

I havent been going to temple for almost 3 weeks.
I miss my prayers with Maitreya~!

Hmmm... healthy is the most important in LIFE!
Never fall sick again~ it's a terrible memory.

Saturday, July 21, 2007

洗車的感想...





好久沒有洗車了, 當下洗車的感覺真的好棒!
雖然這輛車不是我的 :P

汗流浹背的感覺真的超棒!

記得以前小的時候爸爸都會叫我爬上他的大型貨車幫他打臘車頂.
那是因為我個子小啊, 而且那時候怕高的我不是很敢爬上去的.

現在回想起當時的情況真的有點懷念.
不知不覺老爸已經67歲了,

突然間覺得他好想蒼老了許多.
一頭銀白的頭發, 走路開始緩慢,

有時還看見他吃飯時手還會顫抖...
老爸還沒有退休, 他仍然如往常一樣,

一早起床準備狗的食物, 魚的飼料...
還是勤奮的當著學校巴士士機.

其實, 他老人家很想退休,

但是還有車的供款未結帳所以還在工作.
是不是當孩兒的做得不夠好,

所以他老人家無法早日享清福呢?

無論如何, 洗車... 感觸真多,

希望老爸他別太操勞了.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Job Vacancy~Account Executive

Interested in trying out for Account Executive?

Currently the office is located @ Kelana Jaya.
It is moving to Glenmarie nearby Subang Parade.

Salary: Range around 2k or above (depends on your experience)

You may email over to:
renesial@pd.jaring.my

Good LUCK!

Great DEAL - Room to let

Medium Room for rent (Grab it quick ~)
Available from August 2007!!
YOU may book it NOW!


Location:
Taman Mayang Jaya (Nearby Kelana Jaya LRT Station)

Inclusive of water & electricity

Walking distance to LRT station (3 minutes to LRT) and public transporation
E.G. Feeder bus and FREE bus to IKANO

Rental per month: RM350-00

Please call Jason @ 012-3740 363

Tuesday, July 03, 2007

Living under Law~ environment

I am back to Legal line. Yes, no doubt! I am back to conveyancing field. I have gone back to my 1st company.

The feeling is fine. I have started with my work in an even more detail and professional way. The great reason why I return to this industry is simply because the pay is higher (of cause) and the great management style with 2 gentle bosses.

Stepping into the 2nd month, I have gone through my probation period that is 1 month as promised by my management. However, I don't really mind to have the real confirmation letter as I know it's just a piece of paper and that we all are way too busy with the heavy work load, no one really cares about the confirmation letter.

Well, I hope that I get to enhance even more and stay longer to tryout myself again in Legal line.

Anyway, somehow I still have a dream... that is to have my own free moment to work in future. Work whenever I like and have much more freedom to decide where to go and what to do. Sticking over with 9-6pm kind of working hours is consider stable, however, SOHO or rather freelance is a great attraction to me!

At least I get to plan my time and schedule it with my interest such as Video Editing, spending time to work on my blogger and it seems like a great diary to me. Anything that comes across my mind I get to explore it. That is what I really wish to do before I gets too old.

Sunday, February 18, 2007

大哭一场~

大年初一。。。猪年到了, 新年快乐, 恭喜发财, 心想事成, 万事如意~

面对着过去。。 当下。。还有未来, 内心混乱不已~!

健康的每况愈下, 事业的不平稳,肩上扛的责任, 好像年龄一样,每年长一岁责任就增添一份的责任。

今天,面对这种种的事物, 热泪盈眶, 完全控制不住地流泪。。。 越流越多。。。

看见生命的流失, 我家里的一条鱼病情严重, 终于耐不住离开了我们。
虽然我并不是每天喂养它们的主人, 但是, 离别的感觉真的很难过。 我第一个也是唯一可以想到并做到的就是为它造福。

自从上个星期感冒了以后, 足足病了整个星期。 咳嗽, 伤风, 发烧, 现在再加上女生生理的不便, 让我更是难过极了!深深的体诲到生命是多么的脆弱~

哭了大概有五分钟。。。 只想到海边走走。 吹吹海风, 让人轻松一下。清一清脑袋思绪, 好好的往前面的路走下去。

继续我的坚持!
继续我的理想!
继续我的信仰!
继续我的使命!

想看书。。。 大自然的书。。。内心需要大自然的力量, 让不平不满回归到零点, 平静下来, 才能助人助己:)